TYPES OF ABUSE

24. USE ABUSE

This is when a person uses another for their own gain. Often the situation here is that they will pretend to give love, affection and even some sex in return for things they want. They have no intention of love or care. It is a very popular type of abuse used by women (probably because they are better equipped to use bargaining tools than men are). Promises of sex by a woman to a man can get much from the man. Having emphasised that aspect, it has to be added that men are not above using women for their own gains and, sadly, women will surrender their bodies to a man thinking he is giving them love, when all he wants is free sex. So it can work both ways. Sex and money are usually the key players in this type of abuse.